<h1 class="post-title" style="text-align: center;">Speak with your eyes, not with your mouth.</h1>
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<p>We all know, the eyes are the windows to the soul.<br /><br />It's cliche, but it's true - we communicate a whole lot with eye contact. It's just as important as body language and other non-verbal cues.<br /><br />When we're unable to hold a gaze or look away from strangers, we're communicating that we're not comfortable with it. It's like being uptight in our bodies, crossing our arms, or not being present when we're <a href="https://www.loveawake.com/free-online-dating/Spain-dating-service.html?gender=female&page=4">interacting with cute girls</a>. Somehow something is missing.<br /><br />She may not be able to tell you what it is, but it will throw the entire first impression off - eye contact is one of the first things she'll catch even when she's picking up your vibe.<br /><br />And you can say a whole lot with eye contact.<br /><br />Ever <a href="https://blog.loveawake.com/2020/07/06/romantic-films-men-can-tolerate-watching/">watch a romantic comedy</a> where two girls fought over a guy and gave each other "the look"? Yes, the dagger eyes.<br /><br />Or how about a jealous girl giving a guy the "cold stare"?<br /><br />Those are typical examples and the most obvious. Ever talk to a close friend without uttering a word, saying it all through words?<br /><br />If you haven't, better start practicing now.<br /><br />And like all other physical skills, eye contact gets better with practice. The more you look people in the eye while talking to them, passing them on the street or when you first meet them, the less gun shy you'll be about it.<br /><br />I'll throw out a couple of things we can all do everyday to develop good eye contact that will help give us... you ready, it's a big one...</p>
<h2>Presence!</h2>
<p>Yes, one of the holy grails of attracting women is having presence. It's being magnetic, being irresistible to her even before uttering a word.<br /><br />It starts with eye contact.<br /><br />So, first off - play eye tag with people you pass in the street, in hallways, in the elevator.<br /><br />You'll be surprised how many people will look away or break if off right when you initiate eye contact.<br /><br />Why? It's intimate, and it requires a degree of confidence. Some people don't have it, and that's why if you're not used to it... start doing it, TODAY.<br /><br />Next, <a href="https://blog.loveawake.com/2021/05/17/how-to-use-eye-seduction/">hold eye contact</a> with everyone you talk to.<br /><br />Doesn't have to be long, awkward stare where you're gazing blankly into their eyes. Simply hold the conversation while studying their eyes and facial features. See if you can notice their nose, lips, cheekbones, etc. - you'll be surprised what you <a href="https://blog.loveawake.com/2020/09/21/why-pick-up-lines-dont-work-and-never-will/">pick up in the process</a>.<br /><br />Try it with your boss, and other people you respect and admire (okay, not your boss for some of you). They'll feel your quiet confidence and respect you in return.<br /><br />Holding eye contact shows that you're engaged in the conversation and listening to what the other person has to say. You become more present by looking at them, and you're connecting with the person in a way beyond words.</p>
<h2>Yes, connecting beyond words.</h2>
<p>And isn't that what we really want, the ability to connect with women beyond words? There are several ways we can do it: eye contact, physical touch, and presence.<br /><br />In fact, eye contact can be more intimate than physical touch. Ever notice how intense eye contact gets right before a girl kisses you or wants to get more intimate? It's just farkin' wrong not to look at her when you two are having an intimate conversation or getting it on.<br /><br />So yes, eye contact is a big part of bedroom behavior - and yes, you are bringing it out into everyday interactions. Now you know why the people in the elevator shy away when you look at them directly. And if you can eye cute girls by generating presence with your gaze, chances are that you'll have no problems walking up to talk to them - after all, the hard work's already been done.<br /><br />She's acknowledged you silently, and now she's ready to be talk to. Finally, try practicing eye contact on purpose. Grab a friend you know well - can be someone you go picking up with, or a <a href="https://www.loveawake.com/free-online-dating/Spain-dating-service.html?gender=female&page=4">female friend</a>. Tell them you want to work on your eye contact, and how you read an article on it.<br /><br />Then stand face to face, starting out at conversation distance. Then just stare into each other's eyes.</p>
<h3>Now start communicating.</h3>
<p>Do it for 30 seconds, then inch closer together - repeat several times until the distance is too close.<br /><br />And it's impossible not to feel or communicate anything - in fact, at that distance you have to.<br /><br />So there you have it - one of the crucial details in generating presence and getting her attracted even before you utter a word.</p>